Count Your Words
Proverbs 26 addresses the importance of discernment and self-control, highlighting the folly of foolishness and the consequences of a lack of discipline. It contrasts wise behaviour with that of the foolish, urging readers to recognise the dangers of slander, laziness, and misplaced trust. Ultimately, it highlights the necessity of wisdom and the significance of personal responsibility in navigating life’s challenges effectively.
Proverbs 26:18-19 (ERV) reminds us, “Anyone who would trick someone and then say, ‘I was only joking’ is like a fool who shoots flaming arrows into the air and accidentally kills someone.” This stark imagery illustrates the danger of careless words. Solomon warns that what may seem like harmless joking can inflict deep harm. The excuse, “I was just kidding,” offers little solace to those who have been hurt by deceitful words.
As Robin Sharma wisely states, “Words can inspire. And words can destroy. Choose yours well.” Our speech holds tremendous power; it can either build up or tear down. Proverbs 11:9 (MSG) reinforces this truth: “The loose tongue of the godless spreads destruction; the common sense of the godly preserves them.” Similarly, Proverbs 15:4 (AMP) teaches us, “A soothing tongue [speaking words that build up and encourage] is a tree of life, but a perverse tongue [speaking words that overwhelm and depress] crushes the spirit.”
Jesus emphasises this principle in Matthew 12:34-37 (AMP), saying, “You brood of vipers, how can you speak good things when you are evil? For the mouth speaks out of that which fills the heart.” Our words are a reflection of our inner selves, and on the day of judgment, we will be held accountable for every careless word we speak. “For by your words [reflecting your spiritual condition] you will be justified… and by your words [rejecting Me] you will be condemned.”
Humour
As believers, we are called to higher standards. Ephesians 5:4 (AMP) instructs, “Let there be no filthiness and silly talk, or coarse joking, because such things are not appropriate [for believers]; but instead, speak of your thankfulness [to God].” Likewise, Luke 6:37 (MSG) reminds us to treat others with grace: “Don’t pick on people, jump on their failures, criticise their faults—unless, of course, you want the same treatment.”
It is never appropriate for a Christian to indulge in rude or crude humour. As Ephesians 4:29 (NIV) advises, “Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs.” To ensure we are careful with our words, Psalm 141:3 (AMP) offers a poignant prayer: “Set a guard, O Lord, over my mouth; keep watch over the door of my lips [to keep me from speaking thoughtlessly].”
Words have the profound ability to heal or harm. As followers of Christ, we are called to be stewards of our speech, ensuring our words reflect the love, respect, and kindness that Jesus exemplified. By choosing our words carefully, we adhere to divine guidance and foster a compassionate and understanding world. Let us commit to using our words as instruments of peace and encouragement, ever mindful of their impact on the hearts and spirits of those around us.